Andrew Ferebee

For many men, committing to a serious relationship is one of the most challenging decisions in life. This isn’t without reason. So much of what we consider valuable hangs on this decision–your future, her future, and your state of happiness. A poorly chosen partner can wreak years of havoc on your life and leave you … Read more

Pursuing women you’re attracted to is exhilarating. The “chase” taps into something very primal in us men, and it can be exhilarating to pursue a woman who you think is beautiful, intelligent, and fun to be around. But when you should you give up? The problem for most of us is that our ego starts … Read more

There is no worse feeling than the feeling of desperation that comes to you when you realize your once-healthy relationship is decaying. It can drive you mad. The woman that has for so long been the dearest thing to your heart–the centerpiece of your existence–seems to be slipping slowly from your hands and you feel … Read more

Every relationship has its share of arguments and fights. Conflict is a relationship’s ever-present companion. But how do you tell if your relationship has too much conflict or too many fights? How do you tell if you’re going through the natural stages of a healthy relationship or are entangled in a bad relationship that needs … Read more

I wish I could sit here and tell you that relationships are just like they are in the movies. I wish I could tell you that the honeymoon phase lasts forever, that love always wins, and that your relationship will be okay, no matter what anyone else tells you. That would be a lie. The … Read more

“We need to talk. I need some space.” The words hit you like a ton of bricks. It is a feeling you can’t describe. You thought things were going well in the relationship, but then she hits you with a complete curveball. She’s standing there before you, asking you to give her space. You didn’t … Read more

Romantic relationships make the world go ’round and make for amazing stories. A woman who loves a man can make his life a million times better. But real love is hard to find. The fear of being with someone who’s only faking their affection is real—and not only real but valid.  Of course, everyone can … Read more

Building healthy family relationships take years of intentionality, understanding, respect, and endless communication. Ask any healthy family how they got to where they are now, and I guarantee you will never hear the words, “It was easy.” It’s never easy. Relationships of any sort are never easy. Nothing valuable comes easy! The truth is, family … Read more

“You don’t let go of a bad relationship because you stop caring about them. You let go because you start caring about yourself.” — Charles Orlando 19% of people are unhappy in their relationships, according to The Happiness Index: Love and Relationships in America. Yes, almost one in five people are with a long-term partner they … Read more

Nearly half of all marriages end in divorce. The average marriage is unhappy and boring. It’s sad. Who’s to blame for the fact that modern people can’t hold down what is one of the oldest relationships in human history? It’s a complex issue! Unfortunately, it’s challenging for many men to rebuild the spark in a … Read more

When people think about their love life, they hope they can offer their partners the sexual relationship they deserve. Being a better lover isn’t just a bragging right among men! It’s also one of the best ways to ensure your relationship doesn’t fall apart. In some cases, being a better lover can also help you … Read more

“The opposite of loneliness is not togetherness, it’s intimacy” ― Richard Bach Relationships aren’t merely about being physically close. If — like many men — you want to start building high-quality relationships, you need to be emotionally available too.  Here’s the problem: we are taught to be closed off as men. From an early age, we learn … Read more

Attracting beautiful women isn’t easy. It doesn’t matter how elite you are; it can be hard to catch her eye and keep her interested. Chances are, you’re playing it too safe.  Yes, women like to be treated well — the dates, the flowers, the whole shebang. However, she will lose interest if you’re coming across as … Read more

Some men waste their time on women in lower leagues. You don’t want to be that guy! High-value women are not desperate for a relationship. They don’t rely on men for finances, validation, or even their security. No, they’ve got it all figured out.  I won’t lie to you — these women are rare. If she … Read more

A breakup or divorce can turn you into a lonely mess. Everything that once held so much meaning and gave you so much joy is gone in an instant. You blink and her bags are packed, your car sits alone in the driveway, and there’s an empty space in the bed beside you. A cold, … Read more

Fragile masculinity destroys men’s lives. Some people think that the opposite of ruthless, aggressive, “toxic masculinity” is healthy masculinity, but it’s not. The opposite of toxic masculinity is weak, fragile masculinity. Though fragile masculinity is less frequently discussed than toxic masculinity, I’d argue that the effects of fragile masculinity are actually more difficult to overcome … Read more

Resentment is one of the leading causes of divorce in long-term marriages. It’s true, and it gets worse. The Gottman Institute cites resentment as one of the most likely indicators of a breakup — making up one-quarter of the Four Horsemen of Relationships. The insidious thing about resentment is that you often can’t tell that … Read more

“Next to hurting my family, cheating on me is the worst thing someone could do.” — Robert Buckley Relationships without trust have no value. You’ve worked hard to build something up with your partner… but all of it can tumble down around your feet in one quick move.  Saving a relationship after cheating is not … Read more

Masculinity kind of gets a bad rap nowadays. So much so, that the words “real man” have become an insult – no, a threat even upon someone else’s identity. It’s insulting to tell other people that you know what “real men” are supposed to do because there is no consensus on what a real man … Read more