Andrew Ferebee

There’s an old saying: “The most important decision a man will ever make is the woman he chooses to marry.” While there’s definitely truth to this, I’d offer a slightly different take. “The most important decision a man will ever make is the woman he chooses to marry AND how he chooses to show up … Read more

A lot of people think that your life ends when you turn 30. 40? To most people in modern society, 40 is ancient. But is it really? If you’re a single man in your 40s, is there still hope for you to find “the one” and live the life you’ve always wanted? I don’t just … Read more

Finding the perfect romantic partner was never going to be easy, but you probably weren’t expecting it to be as challenging as it is. Though many people do end up finding romantic partners, they don’t find love, happiness, and the “perfect” relationship. Many men struggle to find quality romantic partners for their entire lives. I’ve … Read more

Assertiveness is one of a man’s most crucial—and often neglected—skills. Assertiveness is often mistakenly classified as aggressiveness, completely changing how many men view and think about themselves.  It’s important to understand that our masculine instincts create a certain innate aggressiveness unique to our sex. Studies have shown that even among young children, males have more … Read more

For most men, achieving financial prosperity is one of their primary goals in life. They think that if they can accrue a certain amount of wealth—buy a bigger house, or purchase a certain car, their purpose in life will be fulfilled.  The problem that many men encounter is that after they achieve this level of … Read more

I want you to take a minute and think about something: when was the last time you saw your partner lust over you? When was the last time you noticed her truly eyeing you with desire? Does it feel like a rare sight these days? Are your sexual encounters becoming few and far between? Do … Read more

So… your wife doesn’t love you anymore. Perhaps she’s said this outright, or you’ve just got a feeling that something is just ‘off.’ Oppositely, maybe you’re the one who isn’t feeling right. You don’t feel the same attraction or compassion as you once did. You aren’t entirely sure of the cause, but you have become … Read more

A happy, fulfilling life is impossible if you don’t love yourself. Self-love is at the root of everything of value in a man’s life–relationships, health, and overall contentment. If you can’t look yourself in the mirror and feel generally pleased with the man who stares back, your life will never quite feel full. You may … Read more

When you’re a man, being cheated on tends to go one of two ways…  Either you let the experience destroy you, shattering your faith in the opposite sex altogether and turning you into an untrusting, insecure, and emotionally damaged man…  Or you find the inner strength to turn your pain into power. Rather than let … Read more

Most men do not achieve their goals. Most men don’t become happy, don’t succeed at the things that are most important to them, and do not thrive in this world. In reality, only a few men (as few as 8%) are truly “successful” in their own eyes. Sure, you can contort the definition of success … Read more

Are you in a relationship that constantly feels off-balance? Does it seem like one person reaps all the rewards while the other is forced to cater to that person’s every whim?  Do you feel like you’re caught in a lose-lose situation? You’re trying to support your partner and keep them happy, but the more effort … Read more

Is your life stuck on repeat? Does it feel like you’re caught in a never-ending cycle of the same struggles, frustrations, and disappointments?  Do you quietly feel jaded by a stagnant career, a lackluster love life, or a low social standing? Are you desperate for a breakthrough—for the opportunity to taste real success—but don’t know … Read more

Dating culture today is set up in a way that leads to bad relationships. In dating today, there are no values, no responsibility, and everything is chaos. Today’s dating culture is weak, and men and women are struggling to find lasting love like never before. With the fall of the relationship has come the rise … Read more

What does it mean to be a man—to be masculine? When you think of the word itself, what images come to mind?  Obviously, there are certain physical characteristics that come with being a man, such as broad shoulders, larger muscles, longer legs, and a symmetrical body shape.  But what about what’s inside? What are the … Read more

Has your once-healthy relationship turned into a constant battle? Are you at the mercy of your anger and find that everything your partner does pisses you off?  Do minor disagreements about mundane activities snowball into massive arguments that are openly hostile and emotionally damaging for both of you? Do you find other aspects of your … Read more

The importance of fatherhood cannot be overstated. Never, in all your life, will you be able to do something as important, meaningful, fulfilling, and world-changing as raising good kids. Consider the following statistics (U.S. Census Bureau) and their implications: The list goes on and on. Pair these three stats with the fact that 33% of … Read more

You’ve been told a lie about emotions. Society has told you to show your emotions whenever you feel like it, wear your heart on your sleeve at all times, and allow your “feelings” to determine the decisions that you do and do not make. It’s time to put an end to that because frankly, it’s … Read more

No matter how you cut it, divorce sucks.  Are the emotional aftershocks of a divorce leaving you reeling? Does the idea of diving back into the dating pool seem daunting? Are you seriously concerned about the impact this is having on your kids? If so, you are not alone in this fiery ordeal. Divorce can … Read more

Are you sick of battling life’s challenges all by yourself? Are you fed up with the relentless expectation to suppress your emotions and endure in silence? As men, we’ve been programmed to think that expressing emotions, seeking help, and relying on others are signs of frailty. In a world demanding stoicism, strength, and silence, reaching … Read more