What I learned from watching a guy get a blow job at the beach. What do our friends talk about when we’re not there? What keeps us stuck in unhealthy patterns? And what do extraordinary guys do to keep it from happening to them?
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Tripp Lanier
Masculine Power: Why Won’t She Have Sex With Me?
Why would your partner want to have sex with you? How are you penetrating the world?
Healthy masculine power, nice guy syndrome, and a practice that sounds insane — except it works.
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The Inner Critic and Self Love: How to Be an Ally to Yourself
How to tame our inner critic, what does self love in a practical way, how to be an ally to yourself, Kamal Ravikant – Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It
Anxiety: If You Don’t Want Anxiety Then Attack
If you’re feeling anxiety, let’s talk about a quick way to create some ease while gaining a ton of power and energy. It just may not be the way you’d think it should be. Say no to tolerating and avoiding.
Productivity Hacks: Why You Won’t Need Them If You Shift Focus
How to quickly become more focused and effective. Insights into why we’re busy spinning our wheels instead of getting stuff done.
215 What if Nobody Could Hurt You? — Aubrey Marcus
Aubrey Marcus discusses open relationships, why (most) high achievers are driven by demons, life balance, finding power in surrender, how plant medicine rituals help him stay out of the traps that brings down so many other men.
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Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power
Scarcity Mindset and Perfectionism: From Procrastination to Power — What makes us believe that we have to achieve perfection or have the perfect plan? And what can we do to step into power?
Motivation Hacks: Why Passion is Overrated
Motivation Hacks: Why passion is overrated. How to build your fire. Let’s take a look at the myth that says we need to be full of desire before we can do what’s most important.
Dave Chappelle on Making Excuses and How to Quit
A lesson learned from Dave Chappelle about quitting and giving up on our dreams. Plus why I was afraid to quit playing football, how we abandon what strengthens us, and how to stop making excuses.
Addicted to Self Help? When Big Ideas Make Us Small
Learning big ideas feels good. But what feels better than discovering the latest big idea? When does learning and preparing and researching get in the way of what’s most important?
Ryan Gosling the Pick Up Artist? Standing Out From the Crowd
Can you imagine if Ryan Gosling gave up on his strengths and played pick up artist games to get women? That’s what many guys are doing on a professional level. How guys are selling themselves out by playing a role in order to be successful.
Tough Love for Entrepreneurs – Find Your Beast
Tripp Lanier shares some tough love from a group coaching call for entrepreneurs. Discussed: expecting things to be easy, how we’re getting soft as men, forgetting out power, finding the beast within.
10 Years of The New Man: A Few Lessons I’ve Learned Along the Way
The New Man Podcast crosses the decade mark. Host and coach Tripp Lanier shares a few lessons he’s learned about playing your own game, having better relationships, and the myth of being an alpha male.
214 Sex. Power. Desire. Danger? — Shana James
Why can some guys flirt without being offensive? Is sexual desire going to get you fired? Is shaming and repressing your turn-on the best way to deal with it? Healthy ways to deal with sexual desire and power.
213 Is Average Bad? External Validation & Comparing Yourself to Others – Barry Michels
Barry Michels (co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive with Phil Stutz) discusses lessons learned from working with celebrities and billionaires — the trap that comes from the need for external validation and comparing yourself to others. Tips for find…
212 Sex Tips for Men: Break Out of Your Sex Routine – Alyssa Morin
Alyssa Morin Somatic Sex Educator – What is your partner complaining about when it comes to sex with you? What can you do if sex is stale or predictable? Practical tips for keeping your sex life off of the back burner.
For Coaches: The Fear of Raising Your Fees
One of the coaches I’m helping has been coaching for years and she’s wanting to level up her business so that she and her son can have a more spacious lifestyle. As someone who has specialized in helping men and their relationships, she’s afraid that r…
211 How to Avoid Communication Breakdowns – Alan Alda
Alan Alda discusses why so many smart guys are terrible communicators, how bad communication makes life harder, and what you can do to be more powerful with others.
For Coaches: Can a Therapist Become a Successful Coach?
Craig Revord has always been a go-getter. And as a therapist, he built up a robust practice which included seeing over 24 clients (!) per week. He was overworked, undervaluing his work, and driving himself into a ditch. When he contacted me about helpi…
210 How to Break Free from Negativity – Tank Sinatra aka George Resch
Tank Sinatra aka George Resch discusses what Gary Vaynerchuk told him about trolls, being called a sellout, and what he does to break free from negativity.