My Life Story (in an interview)

Episode 296 – I stole this audio from my friend Jon Vroman. In this episode, you will hear Jon interviewing me on my life story for his podcast. It is definitely the most in detailed that I have been on my life story in an episode. If you want…

Why We Don’t Follow Through

My coaching client thought something was wrong with him because he wouldn’t follow through on his agreements. And then he finally gave himself a challenge that mattered. He followed through. And now he sees that there’s nothing wrong. It’s like the pro…

Are You Acting Like Prey?

Today I ran an experiment with my coaching groups. I asked them to share the most reassuring thing they could hear, what they would most want to know. You know what it was? They wanted to hear, “Everything is okay. You’re okay. You’re going to be okay….

Zombie Dick Hair or Why Have Fun First?

Why have fun first? Because using pressure and pain and fear is a lazy way to motivate ourselves. It’s less effective, too. So what’s more effective? On a recent call with one of my coaching groups we were discussing how play has helped them do amazing…

Why You Have Crazy Balls in Your Blood

NOTE: A second coaching group has been created (the first one filled FAST) and there are only 3 seats left. If you’d like to learn more about this opportunity and how it will help you then click here to answer a few questions. Thanks. ——&#8…

Are You Being Needy?

Here’s an “out of the box” idea that has helped a lot of guys. I use it with my own coaching clients and it works. It has to do with neediness — specifically neediness around women. There was a point in my life — years ago after a big breakup — w…

When ‘Cowboy Up’ Means You’re a Pussy

“I don’t want to sound like a pussy, but she’s just straight up mean to me sometimes.” My coaching client Daryl* was telling me about his wife. “Mean? Like how?” I asked. “I ask her questions and she just shuts me down. I try to be helpful and she coun…

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