This post is inspired by my dear friend and fellow ONPASSIVIAN, an east-coast native, Marty DeGarmo.

“I’m a gardener of people”

Marty DeGarmo

In the vast, intricate world of mentoring and leadership, there’s a metaphor that stands out with its simplicity and depth: the gardener and the plant. It paints a vivid picture of growth, nurturing, and transformation, much like the patient journey of turning a seed into a blooming tree.

Recognizing the Seeds of Potential
Every individual, akin to a seed, encapsulates a universe of potential. It’s a mentor’s duty, much like a gardener’s, to spot this inherent possibility and construct an environment that kindles this latent energy.

Delivering Essential Nutrients
Sunlight, water, and fertile soil are indispensable for plants. Similarly, for an individual to grow and blossom, they need consistent encouragement, education, and opportunities. The absence of these essentials can lead to stagnation.

The Art of Pruning
To see a plant flourish, at times, we must prune it. Similarly, growth in individuals might sometimes need guidance, corrective feedback, or constructive criticism. It’s not about cutting them down but helping them grow stronger and better.

Safeguarding from Harm
A vigilant gardener always shields plants from pests. In the same spirit, mentors should be on the lookout for negative influences that could derail the growth trajectory of their protégés.

The Gift of Time and Patience
Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither does a seed evolve into a gigantic tree overnight. Both nature and personal development require patience, persistence, and consistent care.

Harvesting Success
With time and care, plants yield fruits. Drawing a parallel, this can be equated to the accomplishments and positive contributions individuals make, echoing the hard work put into their growth journey. As mentors, the joy lies in watching them succeed and knowing you played a part in that journey.

Sowing Seeds for Tomorrow
Mature trees give birth to new seeds. In the realm of personal growth, those nurtured often take the mantle of leadership, continuing the cycle and guiding the next generation.

Drawing a parallel with the ‘hunting mentality,’ the gardener’s approach resonates with a vision that spans across time. It’s not about immediate gains but nurturing, ensuring sustainability, and rejoicing in the growth journey.

To embrace this gardener’s philosophy is to foster a culture of care, understanding, and mutual progress. Whether in businesses, institutions, or our personal spheres, a gardener’s touch can yield wonders.

As I pen down these thoughts, I’m reminded of the words of my friend Marty, “Nurturing growth in others is perhaps the most profound contribution one can make.” So, let’s be the gardeners of today, shaping the mighty trees of tomorrow.


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